Very occasionally I'll read a book that strikes a deep chord and resonates with my insides. And I feel changed.
Such a book was Saving Simon by Jon Katz.
One of the donkey groups I belong to on Facebook brought it to my attention. I've read many of Mr. Katz's books and thoroughly enjoy his style and stories. So I purchased a copy just before Christmas. I was looking forward to an enjoyable tale about a donkey.
The book was that and much more. It spoke of Simon, his abuse, rescue and rehabilitation. But it spoke of compassion and mercy. In ways that resonated with my insides. And so I am now connected to this book.
SPOILER ALERT***
When I was about mid-way through the book, I read on Jon Katz's blog that Simon had died. And I wept. I wept for Simon and Jon and for myself having just lost my horse. The grief poured out anew.
At the end of the book when an animal featured in the story died, I wept yet again. Sometimes its hard to let go. And Jon talked about that too.
You might want to check at your library and see if they own a copy. Read it for the donkey story, but you may be surprised at your perception of compassion afterwards. I was.
Friday, January 16, 2015
Sunday, January 11, 2015
A Joyful Day
Sunday is always a red star day on the donkey calendar because its grain day. Oh yes, a special day indeed. Once a week they're allowed a small portion of the tasty stuff.
This morning I removed the lid from the grain can and immediately Gabby, the voice for the group, started a heart-felt version of the song of joy.
We always keep the lid bungee'd on the can, mainly to keep raccoons or other mischief makers out. Clearly Luigi belongs in that group. He knows to grab the cord and shake, in hopes that lid will pop off.
During this cold spell I've been throwing mid-day hay for the gang and here's a shot of the luncheon table today.
Luigi and Gabriella enjoyed their snack while Fran was glued to my side. She stayed glued at dinner feed too and I'm not sure if she had not received her quota of head scratching or was checking coat pockets.
I, of course, obliged with both the scratching and carrots. Spoiled???
This morning I removed the lid from the grain can and immediately Gabby, the voice for the group, started a heart-felt version of the song of joy.
We always keep the lid bungee'd on the can, mainly to keep raccoons or other mischief makers out. Clearly Luigi belongs in that group. He knows to grab the cord and shake, in hopes that lid will pop off.
During this cold spell I've been throwing mid-day hay for the gang and here's a shot of the luncheon table today.
Luigi and Gabriella enjoyed their snack while Fran was glued to my side. She stayed glued at dinner feed too and I'm not sure if she had not received her quota of head scratching or was checking coat pockets.
I, of course, obliged with both the scratching and carrots. Spoiled???
Friday, January 2, 2015
Hallelujah -- Worming Made Easy
Today was a banner day -- I tested out a new method of worming the donks and it worked!
I belong to a few donkey groups on Facebook so don't know which one posted this tip. The discussion centered around worming and one person said she took a half piece of white bread, spread the paste wormer on it, folded, and then crimped the edges to make a little bread pocket filled with wormer.
Now I used to worm my horses myself before the barn started taking over that task, so I'm well aware of all the antics associated with worming. Head throwing was Natural's favorite technique to throw paste wormer all over everything but the inside of his mouth. The donks have been easier, but I still find by the time I reach the third victim, he/she has had time to eyeball the situation and decide no, I don't think I'll participate.
Anyway, since we don't keep white bread in the house, this morning I took a piece of pumpernickel out at morning feed and tested the beasts. Holy Toledo. They loved it! Francesca paticularly. She has never stretched out that neck and head so far to get at what was in my hand. Not for carrots or apples. But a piece of pumpernickel, that's another story.
This afternoon they received their wormer bread pockets and gobbled them. Of course I used carrot pieces as chasers and everyone was happy -- especially me!
I belong to a few donkey groups on Facebook so don't know which one posted this tip. The discussion centered around worming and one person said she took a half piece of white bread, spread the paste wormer on it, folded, and then crimped the edges to make a little bread pocket filled with wormer.
Now I used to worm my horses myself before the barn started taking over that task, so I'm well aware of all the antics associated with worming. Head throwing was Natural's favorite technique to throw paste wormer all over everything but the inside of his mouth. The donks have been easier, but I still find by the time I reach the third victim, he/she has had time to eyeball the situation and decide no, I don't think I'll participate.
Anyway, since we don't keep white bread in the house, this morning I took a piece of pumpernickel out at morning feed and tested the beasts. Holy Toledo. They loved it! Francesca paticularly. She has never stretched out that neck and head so far to get at what was in my hand. Not for carrots or apples. But a piece of pumpernickel, that's another story.
This afternoon they received their wormer bread pockets and gobbled them. Of course I used carrot pieces as chasers and everyone was happy -- especially me!
Thursday, January 1, 2015
This And That
Faithful readers will remember three cute little donkeys almost destroyed our two established lilac bushes last winter. Well, we're outsmarting the little buggers this winter. Rick established temporary fencing around them to protect from nibbling teeth.
A local small business offered these artisan birdhouses and, after admiring them for quite some time, I finally broke down and splurged. We placed it right outside the donkey yard.
Lucky for me I made the purchase before the store went out of business on December 30. Yet another small business gone.
The last unprotected tree down in the donkey yard.
Speaking of nibbling teeth, the little angels destroyed all of the trees in the yard (except one with permanent fencing surrounding the trunk) and this one finally toppled. Rick and I were just discussing how we should put a scratchin' post in there this summer. Bee-hinds get pretty itchy sometimes.
A local small business offered these artisan birdhouses and, after admiring them for quite some time, I finally broke down and splurged. We placed it right outside the donkey yard.
Lucky for me I made the purchase before the store went out of business on December 30. Yet another small business gone.
The last unprotected tree down in the donkey yard.
Speaking of nibbling teeth, the little angels destroyed all of the trees in the yard (except one with permanent fencing surrounding the trunk) and this one finally toppled. Rick and I were just discussing how we should put a scratchin' post in there this summer. Bee-hinds get pretty itchy sometimes.
Sunday, December 21, 2014
Somehow Animals Know
Sometimes animals just know what you need. When I went out for evening feed tonight, it was with leftover anger about a family issue.
After I put hay in the shed for the gang and and was replenishing shavings, Luigi came over and just stood at my side. Because I was already bent over by the shavings bag, we were now face-to-face. While I very softly rubbed the sides of his face, he stood quietly.
It was just what I needed to release some of that tension.
What a good guy.
After I put hay in the shed for the gang and and was replenishing shavings, Luigi came over and just stood at my side. Because I was already bent over by the shavings bag, we were now face-to-face. While I very softly rubbed the sides of his face, he stood quietly.
It was just what I needed to release some of that tension.
What a good guy.
Wednesday, December 10, 2014
Oh, Norman
A wee bit of excitement when I came home from our own Davisburg Candle Factory this afternoon close to dusk. Norman, the escapee from next door, greeted me in our driveway. Uh oh.
I had to continue down to the house so I could notify the neighbor (of all times not to have my phone on me). While I waited for the neighbor to come, donkeys were fed.
At first the girls were unconcerned about Norman's presence near to their yard. But Luigi, ever the protector, was uneasy.
You can see Norman on the left about midway up on the photo above. Luigi is keeping a sharp eye on the beast. Then Luigi became agitated, which got the girls all spooked and everyone was running around quite excited. I calmly told them everything was OK and eventually they resumed dinner.
I waited in the driveway to make sure Norman was rescued before he wandered into the road. I must say he was a little intimidating. He's a big boy and I don't know my way around steers. Because he keeps escaping the neighbor has hinted he may be in the freezer soon. I hope not.
I had to continue down to the house so I could notify the neighbor (of all times not to have my phone on me). While I waited for the neighbor to come, donkeys were fed.
At first the girls were unconcerned about Norman's presence near to their yard. But Luigi, ever the protector, was uneasy.
You can see Norman on the left about midway up on the photo above. Luigi is keeping a sharp eye on the beast. Then Luigi became agitated, which got the girls all spooked and everyone was running around quite excited. I calmly told them everything was OK and eventually they resumed dinner.
I waited in the driveway to make sure Norman was rescued before he wandered into the road. I must say he was a little intimidating. He's a big boy and I don't know my way around steers. Because he keeps escaping the neighbor has hinted he may be in the freezer soon. I hope not.
A mug shot of Norman on the correct side of the fence - what a gorgeous face.
Monday, December 1, 2014
Saying Good-bye
My beloved horse doesn't hurt anymore. He's not stiff and his back hip works the way it should. He's head of the herd again and can part the waters by laying his ears back. And he can gallop the hills of the pasture with mane flying.
It was time to say good-bye today and my heart is breaking. We've been companions for 24 of his 30 years. He was my first horse and he may be my last. Two other horses have taught me lessons about riding and when its time to let go of an unhealthy partnership, but Natural gave me the best gift -- love, friendship, and trust.
Of course I was there today to tell him it was OK and that I knew he was tired. He has leaned on me in the past few months to help him and I know he trusted me. I hope I was able to reassure him.
He was my "love potato" and somehow the world doesn't seem right without him in it.
It was time to say good-bye today and my heart is breaking. We've been companions for 24 of his 30 years. He was my first horse and he may be my last. Two other horses have taught me lessons about riding and when its time to let go of an unhealthy partnership, but Natural gave me the best gift -- love, friendship, and trust.
Of course I was there today to tell him it was OK and that I knew he was tired. He has leaned on me in the past few months to help him and I know he trusted me. I hope I was able to reassure him.
He was my "love potato" and somehow the world doesn't seem right without him in it.
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